I must have been asked about 10 times these last couple of weeks; “Any New Years Resolutions?” as if saying ” Happy New Year” to everyone 16 days into January wasn’t enough. New Years Resolutions are not something I have ever really thought about, it was always just that thing people talk about around this time of year to fill the conversation gaps. In fact, if you think about it, everyone asks the question as if it’s totally normal but really what you’re asking is quite personal. “No thanks coffee guy, I actually DON’T want to share my plans to lose weight, climb Mount Everest or adopt a child with you while I wait for my Latte.”
When you ask people about their resolutions, do you really think they are giving you their honest answer about their hopes and dreams for the next year? I know when someone asks me I just brush it off with the old faithful; healthy eating, less alcohol… At least that way if/when you fall off the wagon it’s not really of much importance. But if you really had an amazing goal that you wanted to achieve or something you wanted to change in your life, like open a successful business or swim across the Channel, would you avoid telling people just in case you couldn’t quite get there?
According to the ever reliable Wikipedia a New Years Resolution is “a commitment that an individual makes on New Year’s”. But how many of us are really committed? I don’t just mean to a resolution but I mean to things in general? Are you committed to your day-to-day goals at work or at home, are you committed to recycling or stopping global warning or is it just something you think you should be doing? If we’re not committed then we are never really going to succeed. If you think you should sign up to the gym just because you’ve seen so many adverts on tv about losing those excess kilos but you’re not really committed to having a healthier lifestyle then why bother? You really are just setting yourself up for failure.
Isn’t it about time we started to think about what it is we are really committed too and work towards those goals instead of the superficial ones we think we should be doing at this time of the year. What do you REALLY want to do this year? Where do YOU really want to be? These are the questions we should all be asking ourselves, and not just in the New Year but every day. Time flies and before you know it you’ll be in 2013 weighing the same as this year and no closer to achieving the real goals in your life…….
P.S. saying I REALLY want to marry Johnny Depp this year won’t get you anywhere, trust me!